
President's Column for
Peggy Webbe
I was drawn to Unitarian Universalism because it values freedom of thought, an attribute sadly missing from my childhood religion. I started attending UUSE in 1999, have served on several committees, and am now president of the Policy Board. My early career was as a clinical social worker, later as corporate lawyer. Now in retirement I volunteer as a lawyer at CT Legal Services assisting low-income elders. As an avid musician, I play flute and cello in several community groups. I am married to David Webbe. We have three children, and a dog and a cat.
Dear Friends,
The most divine love……
February is the month we celebrate love on Valentine's Day. “Love” is a big word with multiple meanings.
In spiritual contexts “the most divine love” is usually defined as a selfless, unconditional love given freely without expectation of anything in return. This is often called “agape”, and it is considered the highest form of love. Many people may conceptualize the giving and receiving of selfless love as involving their belief of a god. Only a deity could have such a pure love, and the highest human aspiration is to give selfless love. Indeed the concept of a “loving god” or being “loved by god” could simply be a symbolic expression of agape.
Leigh Hunt wrote this beautiful verse about such love.
Abou Ben Adhem
Abou Ben Adhem (may his tribe increase!)
Awoke one night from a deep dream of peace,
And saw, within the moonlight in his room,
Making it rich, and like a lilly in bloom,
An angel writing in a book of gold:—
Exceeding peace had made Ben Adhem bold,
And to the presence in the room he said,
“What writes thou?”—The vision raised its head,
and with a look made of all sweet accord,
Answered, “The names of those who love the Lord.”
“And is mine one?” said Abou, “Nay, not so,”
Replied the angel.
Abou spoke more low,
But cheerly still; and said,”I pray thee, then,
Write me as one that loves his fellow men.”
The angel wrote, and vanished.
The next night
It came again with a great wakening light,
And showed the names whom love of God had blest,
And lo! Ben Adhem’s name led all the rest.
Peggy Webbe, President